CHILDREN / AS ADOPTED.

Hi!. Well this post is aimed at parents who will take or have your son / daughter who is adopted / a. For those who already have the child / a, congratulations and those who are in it certain that you are excited about the arrival or waiting for the child / a.
But in the meantime, whether you have it already or not, I'll give you a few tips:

• The first is that it is never hide, let alone having to wait to be 18 years. It is best to tell since they can remember is, since I have 2 or 3 years.
• The second is if you have children / biological age as you do not need to be told as soon as you can say later when Brother / a greater need 7 or 8 years. Also sooner if the child / a is smaller than 7 or 8 years but is more attentive you can say. It should be quite touching as there are children who do not will have to adapt to this new change or not yet understand the meaning, which is normal, although it is not something that should concern parents because each person has their time and not all children adapt equally.
• If adopted international children / as from small they realize that they are different but that's not something you should avoid it. Must say things clear course must speak that although they are different you (his adoptive family) loves them and that throughout his life to know people hated or loved. The latter can say later when they are older with about 7 or 8 years. But yeah just to say that you love him but are different enough for them later tell them what you believe necessary.
• Finally (although not necessary to say it is clear that going to do) give all the love in the world to the new member. Giving kisses, hugs, cuddles, ect.

I hope you enjoy this child / ay enjoy every step that is precious and important.